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Jun 7Liked by Amani Hope

“A father who underestimates his daughter gives other men permission to underestimate her too.”

OOOOF your minddddd

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This one was so good

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Wow, I feel like I was sitting at the Ethiopian restaurant with you while reading this. So, so wonderfully written.

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This brought me to tears. Wonderfully written words, thank you.

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"A father who underestimates his daughter gives other men permission to underestimate her too." This quote is EVERYTHING. I loved this piece, Amani. You have such a beautiful way with words that is just so inspiring 🤎

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What a lovely piece of writing (from a dad of such a daughter)

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i'm just echoing the sentiments of everyone else here but seriously, this was so beautiful and pleasant to read!

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The father's parenting to a daughter is really a scaffolding for the girls who will soon run their world.

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This was such a beautiful read in a way I can’t fully explain. I felt every thing ❤️

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This piece made me stop what I was doing and send some love to the teenage girl in me.

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Wonderful work as always - sending over to a lot of my girl dads. Inspires some notes myself.

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Jun 8Liked by Amani Hope

Such a great observational piece. So poignant and meaningful

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I’m obsessed with this and obsessed with you. This was so atmospheric I loooooved it - so lovely, interesting and captivating 🩷

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Jun 7Liked by Amani Hope

Beautiful writing! Just sent this to my husband as he talks to our 7 month old about her first day at day care.

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that’s very cool! ✨ & thank you Sydney

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Jun 7Liked by Amani Hope

Unbelievably obsessed with how you’re always able to capture moments of people watching and innocent (☝🏾) eavesdropping and turn them into beautiful, reflective pieces like this.

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thank you for the insights and sweet words Chioma 🖤!

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Somehow I'm always blown away by your writing!

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Another beautiful piece Amani! I love these pov pieces. They don’t feel intrusive. They always feel insightful. I’m also a tad jealous there’s an Ethiopian restaurant near you lol

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We are spoiled in Oakland! Thank you 🖤

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